By Erin Mrakovich, MSW, LCSW · Reviewed by an EMDR/Brainspotting-trained clinician · Published Aug 2026 · Last updated Aug 2026
Quick answer: EMDR and Brainspotting are both brain-based trauma therapies that help you heal without endlessly retelling your story. EMDR uses a structured, eight-phase protocol with side-to-side eye movements, while Brainspotting uses fixed eye positions to access where pain is held. The best fit depends on you.
If you’ve been researching trauma therapy, you’ve probably run into two names that sound similar but not identical: EMDR and Brainspotting. Both go beyond traditional talk therapy, both work with the brain and body rather than just your thoughts, and both can help when words alone haven’t been enough. So how are they different, and how do you know which one is right for you?
At EM Counseling in Carmel, Indiana, our clinicians use both approaches, and we help clients choose based on their history, comfort, and goals. Here’s a clear, jargon-free comparison to help you understand your options.
What is EMDR?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a well-established trauma therapy developed by psychologist Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s. It’s built on the idea that distressing experiences can get “stuck,” stored in the brain with all their original emotion, sensation, and belief intact. EMDR helps the brain reprocess those memories so they lose their charge and settle into the past where they belong.
In a session, your therapist guides you through bilateral stimulation—usually side-to-side eye movements, though sometimes taps or tones—while you briefly hold a difficult memory in mind. This mirrors some of what the brain does naturally during REM sleep, helping it “digest” the experience. EMDR follows a structured, eight-phase protocol, so there’s a clear roadmap from preparation through resolution. It has a strong research base and is recommended for PTSD by organizations including the American Psychological Association, the World Health Organization, and the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.
What is Brainspotting?
Brainspotting is a newer approach, developed by Dr. David Grand in 2003, that grew partly out of his work with EMDR. Its guiding principle is simple: “where you look affects how you feel.” The idea is that specific eye positions—called brainspots—connect to where distress is held in the deeper, non-verbal parts of the brain. By helping you hold a relevant brainspot, the therapy accesses and releases emotional pain that can be hard to reach with words.
Brainspotting is generally more open and less scripted than EMDR. Rather than a fixed eye movement and an eight-phase protocol, your therapist helps you find a fixed point of gaze and then stays closely attuned as your brain and body process at their own pace, often with calming music playing through headphones. Many people describe it as reaching feelings that live below language. Its research base is younger and still growing compared with EMDR’s, but early findings and extensive clinical experience are promising, and many clients find it powerful.
How EMDR and Brainspotting are similar
- Both are “bottom-up,” brain-and-body approaches that work with your nervous system, not just your conscious thoughts.
- Both use eye position to help access and process distress, and neither requires you to narrate every detail of what happened out loud.
- Both are designed for trauma and its ripple effects—PTSD, anxiety, and stuck emotional patterns.
- Both are gentle and paced: you stay in control, and a skilled therapist keeps the work within a window you can tolerate.
How they’re different: a side-by-side comparison
| EMDR | Brainspotting | |
|---|---|---|
| Developed by | Francine Shapiro (late 1980s) | David Grand (2003) |
| Core idea | Reprocess “stuck” memories so they lose their charge | “Where you look affects how you feel” |
| How it works | Bilateral stimulation (side-to-side eye movements, taps, or tones) | A fixed eye position (a “brainspot”) held with focused attention |
| Structure | Structured 8-phase protocol | More open, flexible, and led by attunement |
| Session feel | Guided and step-by-step | Quiet and exploratory, often with music |
| Best known for | PTSD and single-incident trauma | Pain that’s hard to put into words; performance blocks |
| Evidence base | Extensive, well-researched for PTSD | Emerging and promising; less research so far |
Which one is right for you?
Here’s the honest answer: there’s no universal winner. Both are effective, and the “better” choice is the one that fits you—your history, your comfort with structure, and how you tend to process. Some general patterns can help:
- EMDR may fit well if you like a clear, structured process, you’re working through a specific traumatic event or PTSD, and you find a defined roadmap reassuring.
- Brainspotting may fit well if talk therapy has left you circling the same feelings, your distress is hard to name, or you’re working on performance blocks, creativity, or trauma that predates words.
In practice, many people benefit from either—and sometimes both, at different stages. The most reliable way to choose isn’t a quiz online; it’s a conversation with a trained therapist who can match the method to you. That’s exactly what an initial consultation is for.
What a session actually looks like
Whichever approach you use, good trauma therapy starts with safety. Before any reprocessing begins, your therapist helps you build grounding and coping skills and makes sure you feel steady. Sessions are collaborative and paced to your window of tolerance—you’re never asked to “power through.” Many people feel tired but lighter afterward, the way you might after any deep emotional work. Your therapist will check in between sessions and adjust the plan as you go.
EMDR and Brainspotting at EM Counseling in Carmel
Our clinicians use both EMDR and Brainspotting to help teens and adults across Carmel, Zionsville, Fishers, Noblesville, Westfield, and the greater Indianapolis area heal from trauma, PTSD, anxiety, and the effects of betrayal or loss. You can meet in person at our Carmel office near 96th Street and Michigan Road, or by secure telehealth anywhere in Indiana—both approaches can be delivered effectively online. If you’re not sure which fits, we’ll help you decide together, with no pressure.
Crisis resources: If you are in crisis, call or text 988 for free, confidential support 24/7. If someone’s life is in immediate danger, call 911.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is EMDR or Brainspotting better for PTSD?
A: EMDR has the larger body of research specifically for PTSD and is recommended by major health organizations, so it’s often a first-line choice. That said, Brainspotting also helps many people with post-traumatic symptoms, especially when distress is hard to verbalize. The right fit depends on the person, not just the diagnosis. A trained therapist can help you weigh the options for your situation.
Q: How many sessions will I need?
A: It varies with the type of trauma and your goals. Some people notice meaningful shifts within a handful of sessions—particularly for a single distressing event—while complex or long-standing trauma takes longer. After an initial assessment, your therapist will give you a realistic sense of the road ahead and revisit it as you progress. You’ll always have a say in the pace.
Q: Will I have to relive my trauma in detail?
A: No. A key strength of both EMDR and Brainspotting is that they help your brain process difficult experiences without requiring you to narrate every detail out loud. Your therapist keeps the work within a range you can tolerate, and safety comes first. The goal is relief, not re-traumatization.
Q: Can EMDR and Brainspotting be done online?
A: Yes. Both can be delivered effectively via secure telehealth, and we offer online sessions throughout Indiana. For some people, doing this work from the comfort of home actually feels safer. We’ll make sure you’re set up and comfortable before beginning.
Q: Do you offer EMDR and Brainspotting in Carmel?
A: Yes. EM Counseling provides both EMDR and Brainspotting at our Carmel office near 96th Street and Michigan Road, and online across Indiana, for teens and adults. If you’re weighing the two, a free 15-minute consultation is the easiest way to figure out your best starting point.
